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vizhenz
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Posted: Mar 7th, 2006 12:07 AM |
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I have a friend that just had a baby with a one night stand and now he says it is not his baby? hmmm.. well I think thas fukked up myself But what would you do in this situation?
Maybe this the wrong title for this thread....but do you have or was you ever in a one night stand? Why? How did it make you feel afterwards? Are you still friends with that person? What is the purpose of having casual sex partners?
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DollFace
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Posted: Mar 7th, 2006 12:53 PM |
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Well I'm not going to pretend to be an angel, but if your going to have a one-night stand, you have to approach it as exactly that: Not trying to reel anyone in, not thinking your sex is going to make someone "fall in love" with you.
Even though I had a relationship come from one, I looked at it then and still to this day as a one chance exception to the rule, not something you can MAKE come out of a one-night stand.
As far as your friend's situation, I'm sorry to hear that, but another example about why safe sex rules. A lot of guys feel what you do for them you would do for anyone else and that could be a reason for them to question the paternity.
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Caramelpython
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Posted: Mar 10th, 2006 12:46 AM |
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I say if u protect yourself there wouldent be a issue, u have to make sure who u are doing the do with because im sure there are alot of guys that will deny a child dut to a one night stand. People always put themselves into odd or just poor choice of situations.
I feel sorry that she has this problem and that he wont man up to what he help to create.
Yes I have had a one night stand before and yes I did regret it because it was a person i would never have touched...LOL ( I don't drink like that anymore )
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Posted: Jul 23rd, 2007 03:42 PM |
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hmmmmm... interesting question. I am sorry that your friend is going through this... but you make the bed you sleepin.... no pun intended.
but a casual partner.... because im all into verbiage and the act that goes along with it i find it amusing the definition of :casual sex partner. i feel a one night stand is just that. but a casusal partner to me means there is an agreement and this is what it is. And if that is the agreement then protect yourself. At all times!! If you're not in a committed relationship or coupled relationship and your both using (not abusing) each other to fill that need...be honest. be clean. be a mature adult about it and take responsibilities for your actions. it takes two to make a baby and a whole lotta otha mess. but you have to be responsible for your actions and if the other party dont do so... you really cant get mad because you didnt protect yourself either.
I know I rambled on, probably with no coherency, but you get the jist.
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Posted: Aug 9th, 2007 03:55 PM |
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I personally don't agree with one night stands. I value myself too much as a beautiful spirit to just let someone hit it and quit it! I respect my temple and I'm a complete package. 
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