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insatiableus
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Posted: Jan 26th, 2006 12:13 AM |
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| In todays society the use of a condom is a must (my humble opinion). However I have some male friends that have expressed various problems with using them. So please fam help me out and send your replies. Are some brands better than others? do condoms come in sizes? do you (men ) have trouble with orgasm or erection while wearing a condom? I look forward to reading your posts.
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Amira
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Posted: Jan 26th, 2006 05:16 PM |
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I heard some men say that they like the female condoms, now I haven’t seen them in the drug store, but they give them out on the campus at college, so if it is a matter of size then this would seem to be a very comfortable as well as enjoyable difference
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Posted: Jan 26th, 2006 05:32 PM |
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| Ya Know come to think of it ....I haven't seen them around lately either (store wise). Thanks for mentioning that one.
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Posted: Feb 27th, 2006 06:59 PM |
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Bottom line is that I use condome for protection NOT because they feel good or the fact that they fit..Most men will agree that they suck..But I rather be alive n healthy than the other options. Female condome..U don't see women running to the stores to get them and I dont think that is attractive either...
Questions for the ladies. How long do u have to be in a committed relationship with someone before u decide to stop useing condoms and go to birthcontrol pills, the shot or the patch?Have you ever had a man take off his condom without you knowing 1st while u were having sex?If so How did u respond?
Questions for the men.How long do u wait to ask her can you stop useing condoms? Are you willing to use other methods of male birth control? Have you ever tken off the condom without her knowing while u were haveing sex? Did she find out? What happned when she did find out?
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Posted: Feb 27th, 2006 10:27 PM |
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wow! you certainly brought this topic back. First let me say that I don't think woman use condoms as the only method of birthcontrol. yes it is a barrier method but I think it's used more for STD protection now than birthcontrol. Now that you brought up another issue I'm sure we'll all be using more than one form of protection
Nope, I don't recall ever catching a man without a condom most of us can feel the difference. Don't you belive that young men or men in general should be educated about the proper fit of condoms. there are many sizes, styles and choices these days. No excuse in my opinion not wear one. I don't think it's fair to place a timetable on lack of condom use. If your in a loving committed relationship then you may choose not to wear one. On the other hand if you know your partner has has fidelity issues this may not be a good idea. I have had male friends say that they don't use a condom with their main gurl.....well I feel sorry for both of them. My humble opinion is this.....If I'm dating and I choose to "get my woman off" then number one, the man knows the situation,number two I Always use protection. If you are supposed to be in a committed relationship then why are you stepping out on me anyway? If I don't do it for you in all areas of our relationship then there's no point! I wouldn't cheat on my man. nor would I lie. Anyway I'll step off of my soap box now. THANK YOU for reading.
Last edited on Feb 28th, 2006 03:11 PM by insatiableus
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Bostonlady
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Posted: Feb 28th, 2006 02:54 PM |
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Pleasure plus condoms are made just for this issue. Asking that question if a man could sneak to take it off, it ridiculous, its just like when a man will ask a woman if she came, another stupid question. If you have to ask you don't need to know.
Trust is BIGGIE, unless your married your suiting up....both protection from disease and pregnancy is issue to be dealt with by both people in the relationship. I have male and female condoms, but they you have to ask yourself what about oral sex? You cover up for penetration, but on the oral tip you go down and she's goes down unprotected? HIV orally is harder to get, but its still a possibility.
Just like a girl scout, I'm always prepared, and unless a man is like a boyscout ready to suit up at anytime, he better find unit to play in.
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Posted: Mar 2nd, 2006 05:54 PM |
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| I agree with Bostonlady unless you're married keep it wrapped....and if you're absolutely that desperate to have unprotected sex, then you need to be willing to get a THOROUGH check-up and have the paper for your partner to see the results; no wordplay will do ("I went to the doctor 3 months ago, I'm okay").
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Caramelpython
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Posted: Mar 5th, 2006 01:30 AM |
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WEll I will say this because I am a person who will keep it real witht he ladies on here. In the heat of the moment 99% of women wont know if a man takes off the condom and size has nothing to do with it believe me. I have done alot in my past. but I was in a commited relationship or should I say we were in a commited relationship and she was on the pill. next.
female condome SUCK..Just my personal opinion. I do know of a few brands of men condoms that I do like or should I dont mind wearing to protect myslef and her from pregnancy. I know married couples that still wear condoms and I find that to be just plain old funny.
Now the funny thing is how all the men stayed away from this post? Come on fellas let's keep it real.
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Posted: Mar 5th, 2006 02:02 AM |
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| yes I would love to hear from some more men in our family. Communication between the sexes is so very important if we want to have healthy relationships.
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