Serious relationship vs. not so serious relationship
You been seeing a person for a while and you and that person came to the decision
that you both will not see other people outside of the friendship. And as time goes on you two become closer where you both depend on each other. Spend all your free time together and chill together. Spend hours on the phone when you cant be together. Make little remarks when one of you see the other talking to the opposite sex. You have not had sex but talk about having sex….have kissed held hands and hug along with really supporting each other in everything. I guess the question is what defines a friendship and a relationship?
Unfortunately, you can NOT assume that you are in a "relationship" with someone unless there is a COMMITMENT. A relationship should revolve around a friendship...but that's usually not the case. There are my friends...and there is the woman I'm in a relationship with.
You don't kiss on friends. You don't make love to friends; not pure friends anyway. There are friends with benefits also called sex buddies. But, are those true friends? I think not...because you've crossed the line of friendship unless that person is your significant other.
If you're doing things that couples do but have not committed to being a couple, you should pull back. Slow your roll. Pump your breaks. These activities will lead to sex BEFORE commitment and you will be pissed if the other person rejects a committed, monogamous relationship with you after having sex with you. Don't get mad at them, get mad at yourself. You shouldn't have had sex with this person WITHOUT having a commitment.
vizhenz wrote: Serious relationship vs. not so serious relationship
You been seeing a person for a while and you and that person came to the decision
that you both will not see other people outside of the friendship. And as time goes on you two become closer where you both depend on each other. Spend all your free time together and chill together. Spend hours on the phone when you cant be together. Make little remarks when one of you see the other talking to the opposite sex. You have not had sex but talk about having sex….have kissed held hands and hug along with really supporting each other in everything. I guess the question is what defines a friendship and a relationship?
When a man and a woman are at the beginning stages of a possible "friendship/relationship"...One will alwayz catch feelingz more quicker than the other, thus making them feel like the other is not feeling them as much or as quickly as u want them ...And having sex wif that person before such relationship will only jes confuse matters even more and more than likely make u feel like u are being used when u feelingz are reciprocated...I dont have any advice cuz love/relationships is not my thing, but let nature take its course and allow thingz to happen gradually and hopefully in the end, u will get the kind of relationship that u want/need from that person...
