You spend alot of time talking and laughing and just getting to know each other. You have the little talks on having sex and how it would be but yet have touched her in that way? why what the hell is your problem?.....How long before you have sex after meeting a woman you are really into?
My Sisters....
what would you do if you been with a guy for a while and he have not made the moves, but always talk about the right time...when the hell is the right time? Do you make the first move, how would you make the first move?
As an older and wiser woman with select experience.
I believe the time is right when both parties are
without limitations and inhibitions; whether they
be it tangible or not.
Say that sex is all that you want from that particular
well it's best to just be upfront and say 'Hey, I'm
not interested in a coupled realtionship, but...'
and you fill in the rest, then proceed from there.
If you are seeking a coupled relationship with someone,then let nature take its course. I mean, for example, I dont think you should jump into sex without really getting to know who that person is; one reason is that you might forget about the quantity of the qualities that person has to meet what you want in a mate as your judgment becomes cloudy because of the physical intimacy you've shared.
And anyway, I believe you know when its right to just go ahead and
do it because your both feelin it and your intuition is always right. If you're not both feelin it then you most definately are gonna end up with some type of regret.
If it's gonna happen.... let it. If you force it, I promise you it will not be what you believed because you will be second guessing yourself from then forward. If you have doubts before the deed... remember...dont do it.
This is not just for the ladies either; It's for my brothers as well because there are some very Sirenestic* women out there that can get you and then you'll be left flippin your finger through your lips lookin silly.
Just my nickel's worth...lol
Disclaimer: Sirenestic is not a real word.... I made it up! Im a poet... I can do that!!!
~SS~
____________________ ~Sankofa Spirit~
"I have come to believe over and over again that what is most important to me
must be spoken, made verbal and shared, even at the risk of having it bruised
or misunderstood.” - Aundre Lorde
